WWJD
The difference between simply calling yourself a Christian, and actually living as one.
Example #1:
Members of Fred Phelps' Westboro Baptist Church, not content with picketing the funerals of soldiers killed in Iraq, have announced that they plan to picket the funerals of the Amish girls killed in Pennsylvania.
According to the church, a while back Pennsyvlania Governor Ed Rendell ridiculed them on a news show. Thus, they feel the funerals of murdered children would be the perfect place to express their displeasure over this slight.
Example #2:
From today's Philadelphia Enquirer, a reaction from Catherine Saunders, a registered nurse who assisted at the births of four of the girls who were shot:
""They're not holding it against [the shooter] or against his family. If things go as they always do in this community, they will go to his family and tell them they forgive him," Saunders said.
And bearing that out...
"Susan Johnson, the Coatesville Savings Bank branch manager, said funds collected there are intended for families of the children killed or wounded by Charles Carl Roberts IV, and for Roberts' family*. "People are concerned about the [three Roberts] children," she said. "The people in the community want to help them, too."
Charity + forgiveness in the aftermath of great tragedy = Grace.
*Emphasis mine.